4 Things Guys Don't Understand About Girls
1. "I'm Fine, I Don't Want To Talk About It."
This is a frequent mistake made by guys. When a guy says their fine and don't want to talk, they usually mean it. Girls, on the other hand almost always want you to keep talking to them and asking them what's on their mind. Guys, if your girl says this, and you take it literally, she'll get really mad. Make sure you ask her a few times, and if she still doesn't want to talk, leave it alone.
2. Why We're So Catty
Guys are always wondering why girls are always fighting against other girls. They think that we should stick together with our own kind (which is essentially true), but we have a hard time with this. Guys, if you think that girls dress for you, most of the time your wrong. Girls dress for other girls. As weird as that may sound, we are either seeking approval from our own kind, or trying to make them jealous. We know that guys don't care about what we're wearing, most of the time. We also are almost always talking about other girls and how awful we think they are, and we want others to agree with us. So, when your girl comes to you and starts talking about stuff like, "Today, so-and-so did such-and-such, and......." listen to her, and ALWAYS take her side, and agree with her. If your afraid of saying something you shouldn't, just stick with nodding your head and saying things like "Mhmm. Yes. Really?" These will most likely work with anything she says.
3. "I'm Fun, Right?"
SO many girls are afraid of their guy not thinking they're fun, because if they think they're boring, they might leave. This is why girls always seek approval from their guys by asking them this. Guys, the best thing to do in this situation, is to agree. If you really think that your girl is not being fun at all anymore, mention it to her in the nicest way possible. The smallest little slip could make her mad at you for days. You can also try to increase her "fun level" by doing fun stuff with her. Don't try to do the same old thing every time. Try something spontaneous, and it might encourage her to do the same thing.
4. Beauty Routines
Most guys don't understand why we do what looks like torture to them, just to go run errands, or something. Things such as eyelash curlers, eyeliner, tweezers scare the heck out of guys. Guys, if you see girls using some beauty products that seem a little...frightening, just know that its because they want to look good for other girls, and themselves (see No.2). Even though it's instilled in us since childhood that what's on the inside is what is important, we all know that first impressions count just as much, if not more, as your personalit
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Love, Avalon <3
This is a frequent mistake made by guys. When a guy says their fine and don't want to talk, they usually mean it. Girls, on the other hand almost always want you to keep talking to them and asking them what's on their mind. Guys, if your girl says this, and you take it literally, she'll get really mad. Make sure you ask her a few times, and if she still doesn't want to talk, leave it alone.
2. Why We're So Catty
Guys are always wondering why girls are always fighting against other girls. They think that we should stick together with our own kind (which is essentially true), but we have a hard time with this. Guys, if you think that girls dress for you, most of the time your wrong. Girls dress for other girls. As weird as that may sound, we are either seeking approval from our own kind, or trying to make them jealous. We know that guys don't care about what we're wearing, most of the time. We also are almost always talking about other girls and how awful we think they are, and we want others to agree with us. So, when your girl comes to you and starts talking about stuff like, "Today, so-and-so did such-and-such, and......." listen to her, and ALWAYS take her side, and agree with her. If your afraid of saying something you shouldn't, just stick with nodding your head and saying things like "Mhmm. Yes. Really?" These will most likely work with anything she says.
3. "I'm Fun, Right?"
SO many girls are afraid of their guy not thinking they're fun, because if they think they're boring, they might leave. This is why girls always seek approval from their guys by asking them this. Guys, the best thing to do in this situation, is to agree. If you really think that your girl is not being fun at all anymore, mention it to her in the nicest way possible. The smallest little slip could make her mad at you for days. You can also try to increase her "fun level" by doing fun stuff with her. Don't try to do the same old thing every time. Try something spontaneous, and it might encourage her to do the same thing.
4. Beauty Routines
Most guys don't understand why we do what looks like torture to them, just to go run errands, or something. Things such as eyelash curlers, eyeliner, tweezers scare the heck out of guys. Guys, if you see girls using some beauty products that seem a little...frightening, just know that its because they want to look good for other girls, and themselves (see No.2). Even though it's instilled in us since childhood that what's on the inside is what is important, we all know that first impressions count just as much, if not more, as your personalit
Hope this was helpful!
Love, Avalon <3